Dont Boss me, Boss!!!

So, few weeks ago, I was instructed to help out with the church choir during Christmas mass. I wasnt asked in a nice way and was told what to do therefore, I didnt give a yes or a no answer. I just closed my ears and walked away. Then last week, this person instructed me and informed that I am in charged of helping out with the choir. Not singing you know, I have to be the projectionist. And, this person didnt even ask if I was okay doing it.

She: Clair...so you do the projection during Christmas mass ah.
Me: Dont you have anyone else to do it?
She: Starting next week you gotta sit in the projection room and learn ah.
Me: Dont. you. have. anyone. else. to. do. it????
She:.....*totally went off topic*
me: *quietly walks away*

Now, if she asked in a nicer way and in a kind tone, i would consider or maybe have pity and just do it anyways. But the way she friggin INSTRUCTED me to do so just turned me off.

For example, I hate Sparky the cocker spaniel. If I had a choice, I wouldnt even want to feed him and take him out but everytime I wanna ignore him, he'll look at me with his big round eyes and make the pitiful sound thing and that will instantly melt my heart. Now, if he bites me and growls at me no matter what, confirm I wont layan him right??

So, the same theory applies lor. Thats why I dont wanna help out at all. It may not be so much of a christmassy spirit kinda thing but screw it!!! If this person wants and needs help, try asking and not telling.

Suck it, bezitch!!